Ah Julia, thats so funny, bless you! I would have called the waiter straight over and told him to take it back and grill it quick sharp! How did you manage to eat it?? Oh god, I feel sick just thinking about it.
Theres alot of good stuff happening in mid September, astrologically speaking, so I wouldbt stress...be patient. If its meant to be, it will come back around to you, no matter how much you wriggle! Mind you, that type of advice is easy to dispense and hard to actually take on board hey!
Are you really not happy to sell your home? Is there any way you could ask him if you can rent it out for 6 months, whilst you get your head around it? Even if you lose a little bit each month, or maybe the rent would cover it (especially if you switch to interest only, unless it is already?). I wouldnt worry about his reaction from a DB perspective, if you really are sad to see it go, try and buy some more time? Theres NO WAY I could have handled selling our house a few months back, now I wouldnt be happy either, but nowhere near as frantic about it. We are renrenting it again for 6 months from this weekend and we lose money every month, but I'd still rather lose some money in the short term, than sell up now. Especially with the way house prices are nowadays. Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread