I agree with T- give H the tickets with love and no expectations. It's such a gorgeous and generous thing that you've done in finding them for him that I'm sure he'll appreciate it at some level.
The other thing I'd say is not to expect things to go completely smoothly with seeing each other- he may still be confused (although I can't understand why when you're so flipping HOT), and a bit scared, so he might cycle between seeing you and backing into his cave. Two steps forward, one back and all that. Keep being your awesome patient strong self.
I know the Youtube link feels a little like going backwards, but do you think there's a way you could just go with it? Maybe reply with a link of your own? In my sitch, the Youtube links have really helped H and I create a fun connection that we laugh about when we meet. It's not a substitute for the face-to-face communication, but an additional one that creates another layer of fun between you (?)
It's a bit frustrating that he didn't show this morning. Did he say he wasn't going to be able to make it, or just not show? Might be worth setting a little boundary there if you'd been waiting in for him?
