HIC~ Yes, I 150% understand what you mean...I get crazy looks from people who do not "get" what it means to stand for your M. I have a few core friends who get it. And I just trust in them, and all of my awesome friends here...other than that, i don't say much. If people make comments, I just say, divorce is a permanent decision that I am not prepared to make. I am the one who will have to live with the consequences of the D, nobody else...so I do not want to be rushed into any decision that I am not prepared to make...then I usually state scripture and God's views on D. Then family and friends usually back off.

I really like your forum...the Q&A was an awesome idea...kudos to you \:\) I hope things are going well in your corner of the world. I'm with you, standing tall, expect the worst...praying and hoping for the best \:\) keep your chin up!! (((HIC)))


Sandi~ My friends at work also say I'm a bad influence, you're not the first one who has told me that!!! LOL!!! :D!!! It's ok, I guess my thread is no holds barred!!!

I am hanging in there!! I have been texting H with no responses from him. Don't know what is up with that??!! He's just crazy!!

I would hope and pray he would not bring OW to friends, if/when I can get them to set something up. That would be kinda dramatic and possibly cause issues, and he knows that. I think he wouldn't come to said get together before he pulled that type of stunt...i hope!

As for FG, I think he's checking in on me, just waits until he sees posts that need responses before he actually responds! He is so active on these boards...just like you, it's hard to keep up. I have a hard time keeping above water, and I just have my thread and a few that I try to keep up on!!!

Well I'm exhausted...off to bed I go@@
hugs
christa

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"