Supportive and Proud Weather She Likes it or Not!!

[JWS]

well guys strange day. I have been detaching well and had a great week because of it. We had a few text conversations through out the week. Some I started some she did. Out of the blue she told me how crazy stressed out she was and another day she asked if I would pay her power bill (prior arrangement. I talked her into a more expensive appartment because it was better for the pets and said I could help a little). Either way she comes to me for help and it was notjust for money.

Both of the above examples I answered her questions or offered supportive words then back to detaching. But today I spent a few hours in the car with the radio and all that detatchibg came crashing down. Lots of crying hurt and anger. I let out anger but was good about stopping my mind from going down the om road. After a while I felt a lot better. I want to detatch. But I don't want to burry things inside. I have had problems with that before. So it was great to get it out but NOT to her.