Hey, I m spinning up bad I just got some txt from some friends my W is hanging out at the big single s bar
Kindaa freakin out
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Floyd...I'm ok with the way it is. I'd prefer that she be with me than him right now. We have a schedule set up but it won't take effect until he has a permanent sitch.
I don't have to "ask" him to watch D. He's being difficult right now for his own personal reasons and with time will smarten up. He's a great guy so I'm sure we'll be ok with the way things are. If he wants to be a d!ck I'll ask FIL to watch her.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
So my XH is continuing with the "silent treatment" I remember when we used to fight in the early years of our R he would go silent for days too. Later he grew out of it and it was a relief. He told me recently that he can't forgive and he holds grudges I guess this is a grudge. I wish I knew why he was so upset not that I could do anything about it but it'd be nice to know.
He dropped D off this morning and I was still in bed. I didn't even bother to get up so he thought I was sleeping. He left and that's all I guess I'll hear from him today.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I remember when we used to fight in the early years of our R he would go silent for days too. Later he grew out of it and it was a relief. He told me recently that he can't forgive and he holds grudges I guess this is a grudge. I wish I knew why he was so upset not that I could do anything about it but it'd be nice to know.