Hope and Christar, thank you both sooooo much for opening up about your true feelings. It gives more insight into the thought process of a WAS to us LBS.
May I ask some more? Was it a slow process for you to want to R or did it just hit you one day? If it was slow, did you try reaching out with little gestures before actually proclaiming that you want R to work? If fast, did you just wake up and say I want R backand then profess to LBS your feelings? DO you think that the WAS spouce wants to R awhile before they tell LBS but wait to say anything because they are affraid that things will go back to being so awful, like when they left?
Ok, that's it for now. I'm sure I will come up with plenty more. Thanks again for helping us out.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008