Warning: One thing I did was "appreciate" things too much. W gave me a nice thoughtful present. I did a 180 and wrote her a thank you note. I think this was "Pressure".
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712