Thanks for the input. I guess each sitch is deferent, but in away the same.
My W just on an oversea business trip for a week this afternoon. We talked on the phone for about 20 minutes last night. The conversation was very polite and friendly. Her voice inflections were positive. I felt real good about how we ended the conversation. Today she emailed me for the layover stop and asked if I would send a list of address, so she mail cards to everyone from her destination. She also said that she will bring some goodies back with her. None if this mean much to anyone else, but it mean a lot to me.
I got really angry with my friends yesterday. They are saying that the W is just using me to get what she wants and I am getting the bad end of the stick. I know they are just looking out for my feelings, but they all think the R/M is dead and should just get over it and move on. I just can’t do that. It mean too much to me. I know we can and will work it out with time, but my friends are creating second thoughts, which I don’t really need now.
I am kind of lost and confused. I want this to work so badly, but yet it could go the other way just as easy. It is hard to maintain a PMA with so many negative opinions around.
