Christa,

How can you show him you "get it"? When my H started backing off my coach said that I needed to show him and, in not so many words, tell him that I get it. We are just friends. I think a setting up a group get together, without pressure, is a good idea but the invite should come from his friends and that you should not mention it or ask if he is going. I hope that it goes well.

I have a question for you if you. Lately I have been getting cross eyed looks from my friends and family when I tell them that I am still trying and still holding out hope. It upsets me that they aren't supportive. What kind of world do we live in? Do you get this? How do you handle it?


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Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
WAW now LBS part III(current)
T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.