My ex became very nasty right before the divorce. He wanted me to be nasty also to justify the whole thing.
ML'ers hate to feel weak or show any weakness. This could be the case. Whatever the reason it has nothing to do with being rational. They don't have the ability
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11