What is your aproach when you try to talk to your h. Are you in the attack mode? If he is saying whatever, how are you saying it.

You could send an e-mail if that would be better. No emotions in the e-mail.

Also what one says and what one does are 2 different. Is it possible he was just saying that but wouldn't really introduce her to D?

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"