I have sent the H a few random texts...he hasn't replied. any suggestions. I have just been using general ideas. He made a reference to "we shouldn't be talking"...so i've used that a few times...like, "even though we're not supposed to be talking, I just wanted to say hey!" I get flustered when he doesn't respond, for the simple fact that when we used to fight, we would start to ignore each other....instead of facing the issues. I can't help but wonder if he is going back to that mentality. Or is he ignoring me because he is busy with work.

any suggestions/feedback!!!???

sandi2...where r u!!!

I am going to talk with my friends who are also still close with him about getting something set up...4wheeling, a cookout, just hanging out....something. I hope they will be up for it. I hope he will come out if they do plan something. And if he does come out, hopefully, he won't do anything to intentionally hurt me...ie: bring a chick! I am preparing for the worst praying for the best \:D

thanks everyone!!
hugs
christa


H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"