great!!!! JOB!!!!!! I am so proud!!!! H must be REALLY comfortable with you to talk about all these... ladies bitlets and everything! so many positives.
sweet one, I know others are recommending you bring up some R talk and ask some questions but--if he is acting confused on the outside (if nothing else, for example, taking you out for din at a nice french restaurant on your anniversary and then showing you on his phone (accidentally) that he is still talking to the aub)--if he is acting confused on the outside it is probably because he is confused on the... inside!!! so if you ask him for information it will probably be.... confusing!! I doubt anything he would tell you right now would be that conclusive or clarifying!! I personally would recommend to continue to do what you're doing until he is ready to talk about it... but that is just my 2 cents and you can always take or leave my advice!!!
I hope you have a beautiful weekend! LOVELOVELOVELOVE T