poet: I told her that while we were sharing the house and not yet divorced she could not 'date' or 'screw' anyone. -
I talked to her step mom who said "She's missing you and the kids and her life". I said she isn't missing me, just the kids.
She said she could always spend time with the kids outside of the house, and that I haven't done anything to stop her from seeing them. She thinks that She's cleaning the house as a way of gaining my favor. However, she also agrees with everyone else in that she 'crossed the line I set' and this is the consequence. She's out of the house and she doesn't like it one bit.
Another friend reminded me that HER love language is 'acts of service'. My love language is not acts of service, it's quality time. It may very well be that she's trying to win some kind of positive response from me. I really don't know and I'm not in the mood to 'respond'.
After she finishes cleaning tomorrow I'm going to put together a housecleaning plan for the girls and I so that we don't end up in this situation again.
