I agree Amy. She is 12 now, and can make a choice based on what she wants. I am going to wait til towards the end of the weekend before I talk to her because I do not want to feel like I am influencing her decision. If she wants to continue on the way it is, then that is fine, but if she wants to cut back a little of her time with him, that is fine with me too. Texas family law states that the kids can have input on the decision when they are 12.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I think that's good. Maybe she just needs a breather for awhile, or as resilient as kids are, maybe a weekend with mom will be the breather they both need.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Do what you have to do, but remember that anything is probably going to make him upset and you don't want your D's time to be miserable for whatever portion of time she is spending with him. Make sure that limiting the time isn't going to be worse for D.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Thanks Floyd. I know, I know D loves her Daddy, and I am not going to make any kind of decision without thinking it through first, and talking to D about how she felt. I want her to feel loved, no matter what.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Okay another small world: it turns out that the band that is playing at our work party is one that H and I know one of the band members, he was an instructor. Huh....
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
So I sent a text to H regarding the above, asking if he rememberd the instructor. Told him that his band would be playing at our office party and ended it with small world lol. Did not expect a response, but got "yes it is".
Small step...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
