I can only say what I would do if I were in your shoes (of course, as a man, your shoes should neither fit me or be on my feet at all, lol), I would keep doing what is working.
I am a person who believes if someone truly loved another person, they don't stop loving them. They can allow circumstances or negative emotions cloud their "feelings" but real love goes deeper than a feeling of lust or other base emotions.
I would say appreciate it for what it is. And have a great weekend!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God