Hi everyone - I would love to get some thoughts on something. Ok my H andI are going through a divorce and there is ow. Anyway for the past year and 1/2 my H hasn't been very friendly to me and basically acted like he didn't even know me like he just met me or something and also for the last year and a 1/2 he has not been a good father at all. About 2 months ago I had to talk to my H about how upset our 4 year old s has been because he never sees his daddy and his daddy never plays with him. Ok now also a mutual friend also mentioned to my H how he hasn't been acting like a good father (before his mlc he was the best dad). Now for the past 2 months (since our friend talked to H) my H has been acting like the best father he's been taking our S to amusement parks and water parks and playing with him a lot even staying up really late to play with our s. My H also gave me a gift but he said that our s made him buy it and my H has called me by my name something he has not done in a year and 1/2. Yesterday my H took our s to a water park and he called me while they were driving there we talked the whole drive (about 1/2 hour) we were having a great conversation (at least I thought so) and then when they arrived at the park my H said "ok we're here so we'll call you later" I said ok bye and I think H said "I love you bye". At least I think he said that now it doesn't seem clear anymore but at the time I thought I heard him clearly. If I did hear him correctly I'm sure he just forgot who he was talking to but it just seems like because we've been having fun and talking and sometimes he seems like his old self before mlc. Well I would love to hear any thought that anyone might have.
