I just wanted to let you know that I feel your pain about this OW business. I have been detached and not around since the news of my W OM. So I was not around to help with your pain. Sorry. I want to echo lost about facebook. Give it up don't go to it again. Even your ownsite so you are not tempted. Snopping only causes you pain. The crappy truth is that you can't control or stop it so what you don't know won't hurt you. Another qoute from lost that helped: our R is over so if he sees someone elses its like anyone he saw before you. Not your concern. This sounds crappy but if you can accept this and that it is nothing to do with you then you can detatch and it will not bother you. Your best dbing means not mentioning it to him and just being your best. It sounds like you are on the right path I just wanted to let you know you have my support.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
