Not much went on last night... I help W put music on her phone. We had to do it through my computer since hers is finicky with some programs. She was having bad pains thanks to her monthly Woman issues. I helped her out as much as I could. We just sat and watched TV the rest of the night. Despite her pains she was neutral to me. When I announced I was going to bed she said good night to me but I couldn't help but notice that she seemed down when she said it. i spoke to her today and she is doing better. On another note I'm a bit down today. Not only because I'm trying to pay bills here and there but I'm in a "Man I miss her mood" sucks.....
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
I hate the Man I miss her moods. I go through them periodically. Especially after we seem to have a good interaction. I agree it does suck!
I'm a little confused but I admit I haven't read through your treads. Your W is home and affecionate to you but says she doesn't want to be married any more?
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
I'm a little confused but I admit I haven't read through your treads. Your W is home and affectionate to you but says she doesn't want to be married any more?
Well I wouldn't call it affectionate but she's nice to me. She wants to divorce me and even started a No fault divorce case but if it goes any further she's in for a awakening because I haven't seen any paperwork yet. I really would hope that she's NOT planning on forging documents because it would get ugly real fast.
I pretty much got some things confirmed for me tonight by a good source. It seems that W doesn't care if her car gets repo'ed or not... She behind on her payments. Unfornately I'm the co signer. If it gets repo'ed and she thinks shes driving my Monte Carlo, she's nuts! No way she'll drive it with an suspended license. She has been seen with an other man but my source was unsure if it was a friend or an other man. My source called my W selfish. I agreed with this person but told them I will continue to stand for my marriage. I didn't go into how I thought my W was a WAW in MLC. I just need to detach a little more and be nice but not too nice. Her world cant be going easy....
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Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
You can be sure that all is not well in the world of your W. It took me along time to see it in my W because she acts like she is having a great time and she has totally moved on but lately, I can see that she is not having as much of a good time as she lets on.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Ima...We can only leave it in the hands of the lord Bro.
Journaling... Well I took the kids up the Chautauqua to see my parents. As we were leaving she didn't seem very happy. I offered her the chance to go with us but she declined. The W had to work but passed it off to someone else at the last minuet to hand with someone I called the Good Friend...At least I hope she is. She texted me and said she was going to spend the night at GF house as they were going out for dinner and then going to a bar. Later W called us when we got home and wished the kids good night. We briefly talked and her tone was cheery and light. she even called me hon. Me on the other hand, I keep thing neutral as I could. She also got more papers in the mail from her shyster lawyers. I guess she'll see those tomorrow when she comes home. Hell of a way to spend a holiday.
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
I think you are doing a good job how you are acting towards your W. You are taking yourself out of the equation by being good to your W. She seems to be very unsure of her actions and doesn't seem to want to be very far from you.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Ima, Or she wants to give me a false sense of security.... Journaling... W got called into work this morning. While she was gone I took a lazy day. She texted me ideas for dinner. We settled on BLTs Her grandmother called in the mean time and was invited to have dinner with us. W was acting very sweet to me and the kids. After she got home and grandma arrived w Stated to get dinner ready. I talked to grandma. She asked for a piece of paper and began to write down what looked to be a budget. W gave me a few half smile glances but I stayed neutral. Later she gave us the list and wrote on the bottom "work it out" Soon after grandma left.I went outside to watch D hula hoop in the yard and counted for her. I think 17 was the highest. Later I went back into the house and saw that W was at her computer reading her mail from her shyster lawyers. I noticed that she had a slight smile on her face, or so it seemed. My mood was still very neutral while hers was still cheery. That soon changed. She got quiet even kinda pissy with me. But we started to watch the race and she fell asleep. I snuck a look at the papers that she left out on her desk. Dunno why she left them out, maybe cause she figured Id look since I get the mail.... They were basically the ones that describe what see think the marriage is in legalizeeze .... irretrievably broken. Uhh sure honey.... the rest described the rest of the process once she returns the part that she must sign. and so they sit on her desk waiting..... Meanwhile I'm neutral....
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
Well I prayed last night before I went to bed. I asked God to guild my thoughts, actions, and words. This morning I woke up to the kids playing PS2 and W making coffee. We laughed joked around and poked at each other. She even surprised me by calling my mom and thanking her for the outfit she got her. HIGHLY NOT LIKE HER!!! She would have never called my mom. Wednesday she is going with GF to get her hair straightened. Unique because that's one of the ways I liked her hair. We continued to hug, tickle laugh and joke. She even wore the outfit that my mom bought her to work. somewhere I hear the sound of a fishing reel....
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Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
Ima, I wish I knew. When she told me that she was going after the D she gave me all the usual excuses ILYBINILWY etc etc. Matter of fact I heard several of the cop outs that night 2 months ago. Since then she has waffled back and forth. We never had another convo like that one. She has also become closer to her mom again and her sister. Began hanging around with the lady I call the GF or good friend. And goofed around with me more. I don't know where she is in MLC land but.....
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
I think 17 was the highest.