Babygirl...you live in Kansas!?! I still consider Wichita my home...only been in OK for 5 or 6 years.

to answer the question to nik about what signs show they are coming around...

IMO it's their peak in interest of you. when they start asking about what your doing, or they start using eye contact, just really little stuff.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."