IMHO I wouldn't send the email that you posted here. You want to drop the topic and come across in a favourable light before he goes to NH. You want this reaction from him "WTF is up with her" because he expects you to say something and when you don't he's going to be curios. Do the complete opposite of what he expects.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
