Homeward Bound!

[pisces9]

argh!
so i have an update with my nutty family.
last night we were driving down our street and my dad walked out to his car (yes- we live too close and he has other houses he owns nearby so isnt always there- long story)...so we drove by and waved but didnt stop.

my H said now your dad is probably saying what an a-hole i am. i said whatever and didnt even care. i truly need to detach from my dad. (ive been doing it for years)

so today my mom emails me and said is it true that you just drove right by him blah blah about my and his emotions...

i said please do not get involved. i have a sep r with you and i need space from him - as she knows.

furthermore- it is always about my "poor" dad and his needs. i need to take care of myself and my health.

my mom always b!tches to me about my dad and i have to stop her.

what a mess. this makes me want to move today.
and quit now- bc i work with my mom. it is so entangled.
i hate it.

VENT!