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[SirPrizeMe]

WDID, you sound good. I hope you enjoy that sunshine!

It's strange about marriage trouble - seems like some people don't realize the impact their behavior will have until well after they've crossed big bright line.

My wife was definitely like that. Totally nonchalant about her fling. As if it were just a minor thing, like she shrunk one of my shirts in the laundry. Only after it touches a couple, do they both realize the impact. I think of it like an innoculation though - you know? Get a flu shot, and you get a touch of the flu, but you develop antibodies against future infections. I think of marital crisis the same way. After you go through a crisis together, you come out "inoculated" against troubles in the future.

Just the way I think about it, anyway.