She doesn't deserve your time Amy. Just ignore her and act as if she's not even there,,,maybe too beotchy?
When D and I went to Canada in June my parents didn't know we were coming so when we went to their house my B had his camera ready and snapped my Moms face. Of course this was a good surprise but it is a great pic. 2 letters FB
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
The thought of what that woman did to her sons makes me sick to my stomach. How the hell do you watch your little boys sit, wait for daddy, cry, and know all along that you are the vicious #$%^& that told daddy not to come?
I feel the same damn way! Disgusting, vicious, and pitiful is what that is. I want to be first AND last in the pinata line!
(((((Amy)))))
Hope the weekend is a fabulous one!
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
They ran into their dad and his new wife in the mall, his mother told them to pretend he was dead! They weren't allowed to even acknowledge that they saw them.
Talk about using your kids...thats bordering on Child abuse!
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Last fall - The same situation that we have this weekend with the dunes. Except that his dad decided to stay an extra day and was staying the night at our house. Spending some Q time with us. The night before MIL corners my H at the restrooms for 40 minutes and cries, and guilts etc. about how could he let his dad stay at our house and she had to stay in a motel while she was there. My H didn't sleep at all that night. The next morning she calls and tells us she won't be coming to the camp that day. We can come get her food and take it. We didn't. 20 minutes after we show up, here she comes. When H didn't cave to her, she found a new tactic to try. It's just sick.
I am going to make it a good weekend. I am not going to be a biotch. I will be polite, but cool and distant. I will ignore her to the nth degree.
This sounds petty and childish, but it will still get her goat...I think I'm going to call my FIL and SMIL, mom & dad this weekend and if I have to address her it will be by her first name. She will HATE that.
I am going to make it a good weekend. I am not going to be a biotch. I will be polite, but cool and distant. I will ignore her to the nth degree.
This sounds petty and childish, but it will still get her goat...I think I'm going to call my FIL and SMIL, mom & dad this weekend and if I have to address her it will be by her first name. She will HATE that.
LMAO!!!
Like I said...You're a good bad girl!
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
I agree Amy...go have fun, spend time with the people you love and show her you're the bigger person. I still wouldn't give her the time of day though. But that can be done subtly of course
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*