Dar you need to let it go. Don't let it upset you. When you have NO expectations life becomes so much easier.

So it's not that you don't believe him, but that you have NO expectations. That is something you can work on later.

Even if you don't agree, he will probably still do what he wants so you see don't allow yourself the upset.

Just simply say ok see you on Sunday and then plan your days without h or if it really doesn't work for you then say oh I will be out of town this weekend see you next week or something like that.

Dar the key is you still control your life and don't waste any thoughts on what your h is or is not doing. You can't control him.

It's called letting go and moving forward.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"