If I were you in your situation, I would
  • not answer the phone so often
  • delay when returning her calls and texts. and don't return every call or text (like you have been doing)
  • cease texting or saying stuff like "You are my wife forever. Like we are in Christ forever." just stop. Stop clinging.
  • find stuff to do.
  • quit chewing


Ha! I put that last one in there to get a rise out of you.
I bet it worked.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....