I have this nagging feeling there is someone he's interested in...why else would he keep emphasizing that what I do is none of his business unless basically what he means is what he does is NONE OF MINE.
Is he the child and are you his parent? I didn't think so....so yes, unfortunately, it IS none of your business as to what he does, where he goes, etc due to the fact that you are S'ed. ALso, if he keeps emphasizing that what you do is none of his business, as you say he does, I have to wonder if you're 'prying' for perhaps a little too much information from him during your interactions.
But the bottom line is this: You do not know what he REALLY means when he says this - you are not him - so try not to assume that you do.
Originally Posted By: Amy M
I'm still not sure it was "just sex." I have the same issue. It was sex, but, if he has someone else (as I know my H does), then he could have had "just sex" with that someone else.
I totally agree with this.
CW, have you read "For Women Only" by Shaunti Feldhahn? If you have, reread it along with DB/DR. If you haven't, pick it up, like YESTERDAY! Sex for men is NOT "just sex", as we women tend to think it is. There is SOOOO much more to it for them than we ever thought we knew!
And YES - GAL, GAL, GAL!!!
(((CW)))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
