Man's perspective, hmmm but Im not him but here it is: You're calling him out on the OW without totally letting on, he's thinking Uh-Oh. Then you gave him a reason you need to talk to him, Uh-OH! SO how did the DB coach say to play it now? If he avoids conflict you might be right he won't call, what's the back-up plan. You're in charge right now. Expect some pass-agg behavoir back. Be assertive in what you want and expect. How are you so successful at work? Keep thinking about you, not selfishly but confidently you desreve to be treated better. Tattoo huh? Well your getting my attention Mysterious I like it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
MsMel, He knows you know. So drop it for now. It will just get emotional. He evaded your vague comment by being equally vague. I would still stay in contact but no more girlfriend comments. This will give you strength if you think thru it. You just bought some time and a meeting. I would expect him to try and bail if you push. Be cool girl. More details on the tatoo please.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Thanks for the advise Coach - cuz I was seriously thinking of sending it. I was just thinking of stepping it up a notch, but you're right, since he knew his bandmate went anyway. (Why is it my insticts seem wrong - still stuck in more of the same).
Maybe i should just respond with the car part .... or just wait until after my DB session Monday. God, I feel like a child & she has to hold my hand for each step..... but then these could be the last in this M. Yet - he responded - a good sign.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
