Below you will find the email my atty wrote to my H's atty two days ago. First, my atty called and left a message for me this morning to call her back, which I did. But, I had to leave her a message. Then, my H called me on the work phone (so he now knows I still have a job). He said his atty called him this morning to report that I want an "uncontested" divorce. He said he will do this but he wanted to make sure. I said, "You need to speak with your atty. Don't you believe your atty? Why are you asking me," He spewed something about never being sure about me because I say one thing and then say something else (meaning he didn't believe his atty.). Then I told him again, "I said that I wanted you to be happy and stay in the house."
He began saying something else, and I began to get broken up. I reiterated that I wanted him to be happy and it that means him staying in the house, etc, etc. Then he started spewing something else out. I said I don't understand why he can't just talk to me about this because he's wasting so much money with the attys., and that he is upsetting me right now, and I am at work.
"I have to go," I said. "Goodbye," and I hung up. I hope I handled that well.
Then my atty called me and said, "I have to tell you about the drama this morning with your H's atty." She said that Michelle called her to tell her she was going to file today. Then my att. told her she sent an email two days ago. My attn. actually had to read it to her. Michelle then got all happy and said, "OK, how shall we proceed?" They -- the three of them -- decided that we would exchange financial disclosures and the attys. would touch base on Sept. 9th.
That's about it. If I think of more, I'll write tonight. poet
Dear Michelle,
I have spoken with my client regarding proceeding forward in an uncontested manner. My client wishes you to know that she loves her husband and does not want this Dissolution Of Marriage. She does, however, respect his wishes and wants to resolve this matter in an amicable manner. She would like for him to be happy and if that means allowing your client to remain in the marital home after the dissolution of marriage is final, my client wants to be able to give him that wish.
Thank you! I look forward to hearing from you regarding this matter.
