My guess would be maybe that she was trying to upset you flaunting the flowers/card like that. But why I can't imagine! My H has done things like that too in the past; I turn a blind eye to all that stuff. Seems very weird and immature to me, but my H does remind me of a teenager sometimes. High school stuff.
Yeah, when I was reading that I was just thinking about your kids. My H lies to the kids about his "friend" too. To me that is the worst of it, lying to their kids and being immoral in front of them. I would never have married H if I had known he would do stuff like that to our precious kids, and I'm sure you wouldn't have either!!!
It seems to me like from what you were saying you were in control or at least acting in control and didn't freak out like most would have? You should feel good about that, b/c I think that would have been bad for your S's but oddly maybe your W would have been happy if you had freaked out. Don't understand that, but guess it is what it is. She's so messed up. Do you think she even realizes that? Karen
