It seems that this is getting to be pursuer/pursuee game and it needs to stop. I keep letting him draw me in then things continue on the same and he doesn't work on his issues.
JAK
Seems to be a trait of the WAS/MLCers doesn't it? I must say not a very attractive trait at all.
Things I read seem to be contradictions. Some say give them "tough love" others say that while going through a MLC, you can't "force" them to do anything. They have to make the decision on their own. Who knows what the solution is? Some things work for some and backfires for others. You know your H better than anyone, but as you say if one thing isn't working, it's time to try something else...
I wish I could give you some advice, but I can't even figure out my own life. Just know that I'm thinking of you.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Who knows what the solution is? Some things work for some and backfires for others. You know your H better than anyone, but as you say if one thing isn't working, it's time to try something else... 
