Look at it this way, since we (woman) think that the man has all the issues. Just let your h do most of the talking, don't try to defend yourself

What I have found is that what I wanted to say in c is just not that important anymore. Now that my h is making such great progress, I have really forgotten what I wanted to talk over in c.

I always really try to talk in c the big stuff. I did approach the why can't you answer your phone when I call. He agreed in c to answer and then that didn't happen. That is where the NO expectations comes in handy.

Now I am seeing much progress and he does call me more unexpectedly, so you will see more results Upside as your h progresses further.

Enjoy what you have now and don't worry about what you think you might want for now. If that makes sense!

It will all come later. Look at Yellow Rose!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"