How about we each give ourselves a good smack with a rotten carp. Each one of us while GAL and moving on and working hard on our M are also very outcome dependent and in some ways sabotaging our efforts.
I'm thinking that we all need to reach that place of aiming for a goal, but, not caring if we reach it or not.
Dang it, now I have tears or snot on my shirt. I hope it's not snot.
