As colder nights harden, their moonlit delights

[mishka422]

I must say for starters.......you have shows on TV there specifically about "lady bits"? Are you kidding????? We are seriously repressed over here! They don't do shows like that on Discovery Health Network that only a small percentage of the country gets.

Lisa - The date with H sounds like it went well but no real change. It sounds like you were further confused by it as you had what would be considered a very intimate conversation (at least by American standards) even if put in a scientific context, he held your hand, kissed your head, gazed into your eyes.....that sounds like a man in love but he's not moving forward. I know Ali said that you need to ask him, I don't totally disagree with that. R talk is going to have to come up again at some point and I can almost guarantee you that he is not going to be the one to bring it up.

It is scary to bring up the subject you have avoided with him for so long but your life is hanging in limbo for a year now. How long do you want it to remain that way with your H throwing you crumbs? How long are you willing to put your life on hold for him? I'm not saying that I think you should push the subject, I'm only saying that IMO you need to answer these really hard questions for yourself sooner than later. To be blunt, you have said you want children, time is a'wasting.

I hope you and Julia get to go to the Proms together to hear Verdi! Beautiful!