You know Jen, I like Amy's suggestion of making this a regular Thursday night thing. Maybe you could arrange with H to take D on Thursdays? That way you don't feel obligated to be home at a certain hour, and he can't biotch if you are late.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..