I mean is this a form of sabotage? I get little freedom in the night and this!
Please help because I'm ready to go there and rip his head off-
Hi Jen. Just taking my eyes off of my sitch for a minute. I can understand completely how you are feeling.
YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS FEELINGS.
If he gets mad, that isn't your fault. It's easy to fall into that trap because you want him to be happy so that things will mend between you. When you next get to talk to him, calmly and maturely tell him that you understand that he is upset, but, that you are both her parents and just because D lives with you doesn't mean that you are the defacto sitter and care giver and in fact, he had best get used to watching D a little more often.
Well, I think that you can see where I'm coming from.
