Hey Jen just popping by. I agree with what's been said -it's his problem. You don't have to fix it, he's out of your control. You said you are frustrated, different form of anger, but normal. So keep detaching, don't take the bait. The first time my W started going off on me about something she was responsible for and I said, "I'm sorry you feel that way but that's not what I did." It was like using a Jedi mind trick. I was in control now of me. Not riding her rollercoaster and trying to please her. Exactly don't play his game. Start empowering yourself, it will feel and look good on you. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.