What my wife has done in the last 6 months was in conceivable to me. In the last 3 years she changed drastically due to hormone problems, hysterectomy etc. She tossed a 30 yr relationship and 22 year marriage without one day of MC.

I had to console her the day the divorce was granted. She was shaking, crying and looked awful. Yet she is the one who left the marriage and had an affair. Demons? Yeah...just a few.

Perhaps what I need to do is walk away and not look back. Very painful experience. I'm not sure I'll ever be the same.


Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final