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I go back to the house too and not even thinking, pulled into the garage and turned the car off. NOT MY FINEST DECISION, but it was done.


Sorry for your rough night!!!! That totally sounds like something I would do or most of us I think. A lot of times with stuff like that we just do it on automatic pilot (I think 80% of our driving or something like that) and you are just used to doing that and it's almost impossible to not do that I think.

Also, from what you are saying it sounds like this stuff was about your H. He started out the evening upset or in a bad mood saying "that's just stupid" etc. and something was going on with him, not so much you I think so maybe he was venting some anger or frustration or stress out on you?

Also, I am probable overly sensitive to this, but when he calls you stupid I think you should call him directly on that, you know that's verbal abuse, and you should tell him that's not appropriate or acceptable and you won't let him do that. Enforce your boundaries and all that.... ((((Corey)))))


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