Sounds like the weekend was really great. Some wonderful feedback there on your work. You must feel very proud.
Sounds like you've been having a few nice moments together with your H too.
I guess with regard to ultimatums (ultimata?), one day you will get to the stage when you are ready. Trust how you feel about that. You aren't there yet, so that's good to know.
Take care,
Max
(Like the tail fluffing talk too ...)
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)