I think you have to respect the fact that we do have a definite bias...this is a promarriage site. And a site that is dedicated to healing folks who have been hurt by divorce and affairs and such.
Where there is room for lots of 'thought-spilling' for lack of a better word, you have to realize a lot of this is offensive--more than not palatable....it hurts folks who have been hurt by extramarital affairs. You are kind of blogging here, and it isn't a blog site.
I do see change and growth in you, and some of it is coming out in your thought processes, and I'd like to see you be able to find solutions, as we are a solution oriented site.
I think you need to be sensitive to other folks issues here as well.....you have relationships with the others around here....it's like a neighborhood, and where others don't need to read your posts, you still 'reside' here, and it's better if folks try to get along.
I think you're kind and don't want to hurt anyone.....I know you've been pretty hurt before.
Please be more sensitive.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
