As colder nights harden, their moonlit delights

[AliSuddenly]

Why dont you ask him? Just ask him! H.. its lovely to spend time with you and I really enjoy meeting for dinner, but I have found the past 6 months quite confusing, how do you feel about it?

Theres an awful lot of talk about willies/boobs/porn etc...last night, again on email, at lunch...how do you really feel about having what sounds like rather immature, teenagerish boy convos with him all the time? Do you think this could be a clue as to what is going on with him? (especially as he said he wanted to live in a swedish brothel when he left). From here, he sounds kind of obsessed with this stuff, as it came up last time you met, I remember. So why is that? What is he 'acting out' about?

It all sounds 'good' but no change. You could take some control...you could ask him why he holds your hand under the table when he has been seeing soemone else for a year..

dont listen to me!...I just went for C and she urged me to think of my own needs, within the framework of leaving the door open for him.

Ali xxx