Hi JCJ,

Call the coach! Just my thought anyway as at least it's someone to listen to you for an hour...

If you have no plan of action, no strategy, I think it's a good idea to have your coach help you to formulate one. Granted it may just be going dark, but maybe it will be going dark with a few select emails/texts here and there designed to pique his attention. I still can't say I've seen progress (in fact feeling exceptionally low today), but the coach did help me to see that going dim was my best option, and if it hadn't been for her, I probably never would have done it. My point is that there may be something you haven't thought of, something small that could make a big difference.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!