Hey JCJ - It sounds like you had a really good interaction with H. I so know what you mean about feeling like the people from H job are more important...I had/have the same problem. I always felt like I was second fiddle and they came first.
you rock!!! Just wanted to let you know I think that you are doing great!! you can fly with me anytime, and don't worry there is a lot less to hit up there then on the streets
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
(((Separated))) - It is a difficult one to deal with isn't it. It is like a very time-consuming and all-absorbing other woman!
(((JWS))) - just the odd bird up there (oh and other planes!!) do you swerve to avoid the birds. I probably would have to - still want to fly??
Thanks for stopping by!
I am just wondering what to do next really... or should I do nothing? It seems natural for me to want to do something more now to build on the interaction so I suppose my answer is I should do nothing as I found out my instincts lie!!
Or maybe it's better to say that the habits we've developed are usually wrong. If we really listed to our gut instincts, I think we usually would know what to do.
What do you think you should do?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Go round to the flat, tell him I love him and that he needs to trust me and to come back home and it will all be sorted!! But there is a tiny whispery voice somewhere saying patience, an opportunity will arise
I get that feeling all the time! It just sounds so right, and it makes perfect sense to us rational folk, but you know these aliens will just not see it that way...
Are you going to go dark/dim now?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I don't know really. I was thinking about organising another DB phone sesh next week, but I like to only use them when I need specific help with something (to save money and maximise the sessions). As I don't have a plan of action now, as I think we are at stage one maybe I do need one to formulate a strategy. I'm not sure.
Call the coach! Just my thought anyway as at least it's someone to listen to you for an hour...
If you have no plan of action, no strategy, I think it's a good idea to have your coach help you to formulate one. Granted it may just be going dark, but maybe it will be going dark with a few select emails/texts here and there designed to pique his attention. I still can't say I've seen progress (in fact feeling exceptionally low today), but the coach did help me to see that going dim was my best option, and if it hadn't been for her, I probably never would have done it. My point is that there may be something you haven't thought of, something small that could make a big difference.
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Our gut does lie to us because this is not a situation that we have any real past experience to fall back on. I would go back to time is on your side so just give it a while then is no need to find an answer today it will come to you.
Btw. I have had to dodgemore birds they I care to think about. Funny how one little bird can bring down a mulitimillion dollar aircraft without even trying
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
