It's been a few years since I read it but I think Love Must Be Tough helps with being strong in dealing with a spouse that wants it both ways. Kissak's H is definitely an example of that and that's why I recommended the book for her. I do not think it is a book that everyone should apply to their sitch. As much as we all seem to deal with the same our sitchs are still very individual.
As long as I am here babbling I will also say that many of my prayers are offered while I hug my faithful dog or bury my face in the mane of my horse.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
