what i did was to get in touch with people i was friends with prior to my marriage. it was after i was married that i had lost my friends as i had other things going on--a husband who would get upset when the phone would ring and i would talk, having four babies one right after the other and so on.
when h moved out, i made it a point to get in touch with my old friends and that has helped me so much.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
