LMAO Madame! I knew you'd be around so was waiting to see what you had to say.
The anniversary did come up- I'd found a card with a joke on the front and wrote in it that I hoped he had a good evening, and wasn't the card funny. He thanked me and said it was nice to see each other today, which I took to mean that he knew what day it was. That was it- nothing else.
Maybe if you were to 2x4 him he'd come to his senses. I'm finding it all a little ridiculous- so confusing. Oh well....