NLT interesting about the gmail account. It sounds like ow doesn't have access to everything of your h's.

Yes if your h contacts you, you must pray for wisdom. For your h, yes things like the Ins issue happen when you get a D. So for your h NO need to get mad about it.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"