Yes Dar there is NO wrong way to pray. God is always listening. I just said I drop to my knees mostly because I was at my lowest and just couldn't go on.

I would just be a crying mess on the floor asking God for help. First of all, he instantly made me feel better and I could think more clearly and knew what direction I needed to take.

I pray in bed, the shower, at the gym is big for me now. I walk and pray. Also remember God doesn't always answer or give you what you have asked. It also may take a long time for God to answer.

For example, I have been asking to bring my h home since this whole mess started. Now God has NOT answered that, but I do believe God is working on me. This journey has been just as much about me as it has been for my h.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"