Hi Jen,

I totally agree with CW. It often feels like these WAHs try to "bait us". I actually think anger is a sign of something more, and I think CW is spot on with the jealousy explanation. You did nothing wrong, and logically I'm sure he knows this. The calmer you are, the more he'll just question his own actions. He may also feel more comfortable in general opening up to you about other things, as he will see how calm and collected you are.

Sorry you had to deal with this, but really I think the emotion is a positive sign,

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!